If you had to write a curriculum vitae of your life in order to land a beautiful relationship with the best person out there, and in this curriculum vitae you would have to specify the number of relationships you’ve had and the corresponding descriptions that come therewith, I do not think that numerous relationships would reflect well on the level of commitment that you have in relationships. And besides, having more than one marriage is very Hollywood.

People separate; yes, they do. But they may also reconcile. I think that is one of the reasons why the word “hope” was invented, in order to be used and believed in during these cases. Getting back a boyfriend is difficult enough as it is without the marriage part. What more in the case of a husband that left you?

In order to successfully get your husband back, a comprehensive assessment of your whole situation must be done. Why did you two go your own separate ways? Is it better if you remain apart? Would you be happy if you get him back? Would you just repeat the same mistakes that led to your breakup? Does he hurt you physically and/or emotionally? Do you have kids? Does he have kids with another woman? And the list goes on. Before you can actually proceed with the whole process of winning back your husband, you need to put into consideration the ratio of what you will get to what you will have to pay to get it.

The difficult part here is that this is unlike anything you have ever encountered from your meandering experiences. You are dealing with emotions here, not just with your own, but with every other person involved. And more than anything else, emotions can make or break people. It is what actually keeps people going.